chances...choices


In contemplation...upon the chances we have been given, and the choices we make....we are given complete "freedom" to choose our direction, and then we deal with the consequences or feel inspired through confirmations. There are times we choose wrongly and experience hell, choose correctly and have heaven on earth.

"Whosoever desireth, let him turn aside from this counsel and whosoever desireth let him choose the path to his Lord."

How do we recreate this as a model for our children, as a method of discipline? ... Using questions and choices which have rewards and punishments, which are a direct result of their decisions? Encouraging them to make the decision? Whichever path, always providing love through a gentle or torrential rain, and/or warm sun?

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